Empowering the patient
Prostate cancer patients out of treatment often have “normal” pain and side effects, as well, including back pain or decreased musculature that can contribute to incontinence.
Pelvic floor muscle and abdominal exercises often help, Hunter said.
“Some exercises are for strengthening and relaxing and some are to retrain the muscles to work and coordinate again,” she said. “There’s been a drastic change to the body. We need to get those complex, intricate muscles to work together again.”
Fred Hutch urologic oncologist Yaw Nyame, MD, MS, who cares for people with prostate, kidney and other urologic cancers, said providers can sometimes forget how "routine symptoms" can feel to patients.
"To cancer patients, they’re absolutely jarring,” he said. “They’ve never seen this before. It’s important we don’t dismiss symptoms or questions that are presented.”
That’s why Nyame does everything he can to empower and reassure his patients, including managing expectations.
“It’s really helpful for individuals to understand what’s to be expected,” he said. “What is normal and what is not. And that starts even before treatment. I usually write down a list of things that can happen, explaining how in the first 30 to 90 days, they may experience X, Y or Z. That’s the pre-education side. On the post-treatment side of things, it’s all about availability.”
Nyame said his patients always have a direct line of communication to him and that his care team is equally accessible.
“We have incredible nurses and practitioners who can also answer a lot of questions that come up,” he said. “The conversations can be very short, but they’re reassuring to patients. Or sometimes, there is an issue and we’ll tell them to head for the ER.”
Many genitourinary surgeries, he said, are minimally invasive with some expected side effects, like muscle soreness, shoulder pain or even blood in the urine. But if pain is severe and symptoms like blood in urine persist, it’s time to call the doctor.
“I always tell my patients it’s not just the presence of blood; it’s that plus something else,” he said. “Blood in urine plus difficulty urinating. Blood in urine plus feeling faint. Or some pink urine but a lot of pain. These raise a concern. Reach out.”
Rachel Becker, a 38-year-old librarian from Madison, Wisconsin, diagnosed with early-stage breast cancer last year, said she doesn’t really understand what she’s supposed to look for.
“It feels like you’re abandoned in a way,” she said. “They said if I had any new symptoms, to call after two weeks. But it would be helpful if I could hear from people who’ve experienced pain that turned out to be a cancer recurrence. I honestly don’t know what it feels like.”
A lack of clarity about symptoms of metastatic recurrence is one reason metastatic breast cancer patient advocates like Joanne Taylor of ABC Diagnosis in the U.K. have created resources to help early stagers better pinpoint advanced cancer pain.
Taylor commissioned infographics for the two most common types of breast cancer — ductal and lobular — to help patients identify “mets” symptoms. Her infographics, translated into a number of different languages, are available on her website and are used within the U.K.’s National Health System.